diff --git a/gold/link/link.go b/gold/link/link.go
index 8144b48..0a53aff 100644
--- a/gold/link/link.go
+++ b/gold/link/link.go
@@ -30,6 +30,8 @@ type Link struct {
 	peerip net.IP
 	// peer 的公网 endpoint
 	endpoint p2p.EndPoint
+	// peer 在设置的原始值
+	rawep string
 	// 本机允许接收/发送的 ip 网段
 	allowedips []*net.IPNet
 	// 连接所用对称加密密钥集
diff --git a/gold/link/listen.go b/gold/link/listen.go
index cf389eb..43e8f37 100644
--- a/gold/link/listen.go
+++ b/gold/link/listen.go
@@ -109,7 +109,7 @@ func (m *Me) dispatch(packet *head.Packet, addr p2p.EndPoint, index int, finish
 		if m.ep.Network() == "udp" {
 			logrus.Infoln("[listen] @", index, "set endpoint of peer", p.peerip, "to", addr.String())
 			p.endpoint = addr
-		} else if !addr.Euqal(p.endpoint) && p.endpoint == nil { // tcp/ws, ep not registered
+		} else if !addr.Euqal(p.endpoint) && p.rawep == "" { // tcp/ws, ep not registered
 			logrus.Infoln("[listen] @", index, "set endpoint of peer", p.peerip, "to", addr.String())
 			p.endpoint = addr
 		}
diff --git a/gold/link/peer.go b/gold/link/peer.go
index ee42562..30ea813 100644
--- a/gold/link/peer.go
+++ b/gold/link/peer.go
@@ -38,6 +38,7 @@ func (m *Me) AddPeer(cfg *PeerConfig) (l *Link) {
 	l = &Link{
 		pubk:           cfg.PubicKey,
 		peerip:         net.ParseIP(cfg.PeerIP),
+		rawep:          cfg.EndPoint,
 		allowtrans:     cfg.AllowTrans,
 		usezstd:        cfg.UseZstd,
 		me:             m,
diff --git a/gold/p2p/tcp/tcp.go b/gold/p2p/tcp/tcp.go
index 372df95..60fb743 100644
--- a/gold/p2p/tcp/tcp.go
+++ b/gold/p2p/tcp/tcp.go
@@ -5,7 +5,6 @@ import (
 	"io"
 	"net"
 	"reflect"
-	"runtime"
 	"strconv"
 	"time"
 
@@ -59,10 +58,19 @@ func (ep *EndPoint) Listen() (p2p.Conn, error) {
 		chansz = 32
 	}
 	conn := &Conn{
-		addr:  ep,
-		lstn:  lstn,
-		peers: ttl.NewCache[string, *net.TCPConn](peerstimeout),
-		recv:  make(chan *connrecv, chansz),
+		addr: ep,
+		lstn: lstn,
+		peers: ttl.NewCacheOn(peerstimeout, [4]func(string, *net.TCPConn){
+			nil, nil, func(_ string, t *net.TCPConn) {
+				err := t.CloseWrite()
+				if err != nil {
+					logrus.Debugln("[tcp] close write from", t.LocalAddr(), "to", t.RemoteAddr(), "err:", err)
+				} else {
+					logrus.Debugln("[tcp] close write from", t.LocalAddr(), "to", t.RemoteAddr())
+				}
+			}, nil,
+		}),
+		recv: make(chan *connrecv, chansz),
 	}
 	go conn.accept()
 	return conn, nil
@@ -147,7 +155,8 @@ func (conn *Conn) receive(ep *EndPoint) {
 		select {
 		case <-stopch:
 			logrus.Debugln("[tcp] recv from", ep, "timeout")
-			continue
+			_ = tcpconn.CloseRead()
+			return
 		case <-copych:
 			t.Stop()
 		}
@@ -229,14 +238,6 @@ func (conn *Conn) WriteToPeer(b []byte, ep p2p.EndPoint) (n int, err error) {
 		if !ok {
 			return 0, errors.New("expect *net.TCPConn but got " + reflect.ValueOf(cn).Type().String())
 		}
-		runtime.SetFinalizer(tcpconn, func(t *net.TCPConn) {
-			err := t.CloseWrite()
-			if err != nil {
-				logrus.Debugln("[tcp] close write from", t.LocalAddr(), "to", t.RemoteAddr(), "err:", err)
-			} else {
-				logrus.Debugln("[tcp] close write from", t.LocalAddr(), "to", t.RemoteAddr())
-			}
-		})
 		logrus.Debugln("[tcp] dial to", tcpep.addr, "success, local:", tcpconn.LocalAddr())
 		conn.peers.Set(tcpep.String(), tcpconn)
 		go conn.receive(tcpep)